BDSM and dominatrixes in Belgium
This page gathers the listings of people who offer BDSM: domination, submission, fetish, role play, bondage. Each ad is posted and managed by the person themselves: they describe what they practise, in what setting, and what they refuse. You write to them directly through the site's free messaging, without giving out your number. In BDSM, everything is discussed before the session: your level, the practices, the limits and the safeword. Profiles with the “Verified” badge have confirmed their identity and that their photos are genuine.
Why Secret-Experience
The site cannot guarantee how a session goes: it is the conversation beforehand that makes it safe. Before meeting, describe your experience and expectations, ask the person about their limits and agree on a safeword together. A serious person will ask you questions too. The site's messaging lets you talk about it without giving out your number. The site is free to post and free to write, and it takes no commission on meetings.
Frequently asked questions
What does “safe, sane and consensual” mean?
It is the principle of BDSM: safe (no real risk), sane (participants able to decide) and consensual (explicit agreement that anyone can withdraw at any time with a safeword).
What is a safeword?
A word agreed in advance that stops the session immediately, whatever is happening. Choose it together before you start.
I am new to BDSM: is that possible?
Yes, if the person accepts beginners: say so in your first message. Start with few practices, agree on a safeword, and feel free to stop.
How much does a BDSM session cost?
Each person sets their own rates and shows them on their profile. The site takes no commission on meetings.