Glossary of Escort Services: GFE, PSE, BFE and Other Acronyms Explained
Clear glossary of the most frequent terms: GFE, PSE, BFE, discreet dinner, travel companion, dinner date. Understand what you are asking for.
Why a glossary?
The world of premium meetings borrows many Anglo-Saxon acronyms. On luxury escort profiles, you will encounter "GFE", "PSE", "BFE", "dinner date", "travel companion", "duo", "SDE" and many others. Knowing the vocabulary lets you ask precisely for what you seek without misunderstanding, and to understand what each profile offers. This glossary covers the terms most used in the premium sphere in Belgium and English-speaking Europe.
GFE — Girlfriend Experience
Definition: a service where the companionship reproduces the atmosphere of a love relationship. Long conversation, affectionate gestures, shared dinner, kissing, natural intimacy.
What it typically includes:
- Kissing on the mouth (often with tongue, depending on the profile)
- Relaxed conversation and connection
- Dinner or preliminary activity
- Progressive and tender intimacy, without rushing
To note: every profile offers a personalised version of GFE — the exact definition varies. Always ask before the meeting.
PSE — Pornstar Experience
Definition: opposite to GFE, an explicitly more intense service, without the love dimension, more focused on performance.
What it typically includes:
- No or little kissing on the mouth
- More direct and varied practices (per profile)
- Staging, sometimes specific outfits
- Less conversation, more action
BFE — Boyfriend Experience
Definition: equivalent of GFE for male escorts. "Boyfriend" type companionship — outing, conversation, intimacy.
Discreet dinner / Dinner date
Definition: companionship at a dinner without necessarily an intimate continuation. The profile plays the role of partner for a social event.
Rate: typically 2-4 hours billed at the provider''s hourly rate.
Travel companion
Definition: companionship for a trip lasting several days (weekend, stay). The profile travels with you, may cover social aspects (dinners, events) and intimate aspects per agreement.
Rate: daily or weekly package, typically €2,000-5,000 per day depending on the profile.
Duo
Definition: meeting with two providers simultaneously. Assumes coordination between the two profiles — better to use a platform that offers pairs used to working together. See our category Duos on Secret-Experience.
SDE — Social Dinner Experience
Definition: variant of the dinner date, more formal (gala, corporate event, reception). The profile knows how to navigate demanding social contexts.
Outcall vs Incall
- Outcall: the provider travels to your location (hotel, home)
- Incall: you travel to her location (private apartment, booked suite)
Outcall is more common in Belgium in the premium segment.
OWO, CIM, COB, BBBJ — sexological terminology
These acronyms (Oral Without [condom], Cum In Mouth, Cum On Body, Bareback Blowjob) designate specific practices. Always respect what the provider lists in her profile — never request outside the declared framework. As a reminder, see our etiquette guide.
Light, Soft, Hard
Terms used to qualify the intensity of practices:
- Light: tender, romantic, no extremes
- Soft: standard, typical GFE
- Hard: more intense practices (often associated with PSE)
Pegging, Findom, BDSM, Tantra
Specific niches:
- BDSM: Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism. Requires specialised providers with a clear framework (safety, verbal contracts).
- Findom: financial domination. See our Findom category.
- Tantra: spiritual approach to intimacy, long duration, energetic.
- Pegging: specific practice, requires experienced providers.
FAQ
Do you need to know all these terms to book?
No — Secret-Experience profiles translate services into clear English. The glossary helps if you encounter these terms on other platforms or in conversations.
Can you request a combination of services?
Yes, provided the provider practises them. Ask explicitly in advance — no surprise at the meeting.
How to know what a profile offers?
Each profile on Secret-Experience lists its services in the "Services" section. If something is not listed, assume it is not offered.
Do rates vary by service?
Yes, some premium services (PSE, advanced BDSM, travel companion) have rates above standard. See rates guide.
Why so many anglicisms?
The vocabulary mainly comes from international forums (TER, USASexGuide). In English-speaking countries, terms are typically used as-is — Secret-Experience preserves common usage while clarifying the meaning.